If you haven’t yet watched the video called “your hidden guardians” you need to watch that first, because we’re going deeper into this topic in this conversation. You can find that here.
Now let’s talk about how you’re avoiding expanding your boundary capacity…
Unclear boundaries are just as bad as having no boundaries.
Several years ago, I hired a friend for a very specific job in her skillset. She asked me to email her if I had any questions, which I did. But when I replied to her message…wow!
The response I got from her showed me how easy it is for us to set up murky boundaries… then overreact to people who aren’t stepping on our boundaries, or keep setting ourselves up for boundary violations, over and over again.
Has this conversation sparked something in you? If so, you might be ready do the work around expanding your capacity. The only way to find out is to click this link ← that will provide you with all the details about how to take your next step.
If what you see there still rings a bell for you, let’s get my eyes on your capacity — fill out the Capacity Discovery Form at that same link and I’ll get back to you.