I work with people who know that they’re supposed to be making a big contribution but for reasons they can’t quite pin down, they’re just not doing it. I help to light that inner spark that sets their revolution in motion.
So last week I posted on Facebook that I would use my “seer eye”
on anyone who requested me to “see them” within the next few hours…
Two hours later the post had gone viral and we had 200 people commenting.
I spent the next 3 hours responding to each person and sharing with them
what I “saw” about them and my intuitive hits about where their blockages were…
and it was amazing!
One woman, after getting my 2 sentence “seer transmission” on the Facebook
post, told me she had a fire lit under her (My Seer told her it was “time to go bigger”).
She went to her husband and they both revived and reinvested time and energy
into their blog and are super happy.
Many other people felt activated and had big breakthroughs from that post.
I’ve been really wanting to find a way to bring that to all of you…
And lately I have been getting SO many downloads about some BIG changes
I am feeling energetically in our environment and in the collective…
things that are affecting our business and are causing us to have to rethink
how we approach business in a new way.
One that doesn’t mean we have to burn out or sell out, but instead
build what we want to make impact with, in a soul-aligned, more fun way.
So I turned on my camera and just free-flowed as my Seer spoke to me
and I recorded a 27 minute Seer Transmission Video just for you with ALL
of my downloads about these big shifts that are happening.
Click on the video below to get the 411 and to hear what my inner Seer told me.
In addition to this video I’ve decided to offer a complimentary webinar,
next Wednesday, Oct 29 at 8pm eastern, 5pm pacific.
It’s called “How To Build A Successful Soul-Aligned Business Without
Selling Out or Burning Out”
And in that webinar I will go even deeper with these transmissions and
downloads I have been getting into my seer eye, so that I can help you
move through even more of the things that are blocking you from
making the income and impact you want.
Click here to sign up for this totally complimentary webinar training.
I actually do have to limit the attendees for this one because I do get tired from “seeing” a lot of people so have to keep this one a bit smaller.
So make sure you sign up now for your chance for me to See you
and to get in on this amazing content.
I’m beginning this post by letting you know that today I am “outing” myself
about something that I’ve been keeping hidden for a long time. Those who
are in my inner circle know about it and my clients have been direct recipients
of it. Still, up until now it has remained a relatively unknown secret.
But a conversation I recently had with a woman who was hesitating to join
Impact™ (now open for enrollment) made me realize this is not something that
can’t be hidden anymore, it doesn’t serve the collective and it doesn’t serve you
when I don’t speak about it.
In our email conversation, she was telling me that she felt really called
to start a business based on this very specific intuitive work that she does.
It is her true zone of genius, this work…but she wasn’t doing it, at least not fully.
Instead she was doing something else that was merely in her zone of
excellence (Gay Hendricks, the author of the Big Leap, identifies your
zone of genius is what you’re meant to do and your zone of excellence
is what you’re pretty good at, but not your true calling).
Why was she not doing the thing that she was deeply called to do?
Well she had this really scary scenario in her head about what it would
mean to really commit 100% to doing the thing she was called here to do
and show up more visibly in this work…
she was afraid that she would be judged as too “woo woo”
that people won’t take her seriously or think she is a weirdo…
therefore she will lose the love & approval of her community…
therefore people won’t want to buy what she has to offer….
therefore she will ultimately fail and have no business anyway.
So her subconscious mind was coming up with all sorts of reasons like
“there’s too much going on right now, I’ll work on it next year”
or “it’s been a hard year, so I need to rest now and do nothing”
And so, she was totally self-sabotaging without even knowing it.
Has this ever happened to you?
It certainly has happened to me and ALL of my clients.
It’s a paradox we deal with every day when we feel called to do
work that is also aligned with our soul and purpose.
Our deepest calling battles our deepest need for safety.
And then we freeze.
I dealt with this very same thing in the first 2 years of my business.
I started a business based on what someone else told me would be a great
money-maker, vs what I really wanted to do. 2 years later I majorly crashed.
I got so sick I couldn’t get out of bed for a week.
(When we don’t listen to that little nagging voice of the soul, our bodies have
a way of stopping us in our tracks so that we WILL listen.)
So I started listening.
I started posting the stuff I was afraid to share on my social media and in
my newsletters. Yes, I lost a ton of subscribers–about half of them actually.
That was scary. BUT the people who remained are the people, like you,
who are still here today. And YOU are the people I love to talk to, serve and
have conversations with. The other people, are just not my client, and that’s
okay–there will be someone out there that will be a perfect fit for them.
I also started attracting amazing clients that were my dream to work with
and then one night I went to bed asking for guidance on what I could create
that would serve the people I’m meant to serve, the most.
In my dream an entire new program came to me.
I woke up the next morning with the entire program in my head and with big
swaths of white art paper and markers I created the entire program.
Let me tell you, I was TERRIFIED, when I saw it all out there on paper.
I thought “no one is going to sign up for this–no one has talked about business
this way before. There’s all this spiritual stuff infused into it, some of the
perspectives on marketing go against what most people tell you to do…
my audience is used to me talking to them about detox stuff, why would they
want to sign up for this thing that’s all about overcoming the obstacles that
keep you from truly living your calling and making great money at the same time?”
But I put it out there.
I expected, at BEST, 20 people to sign up.
Instead, 55 people signed up.
I had mostly done 1:1 work up until that point but had a nagging feeling for
months at that point that my zone of genius was working with groups.
I was worried that because this program was pre-recorded content and
live group calls that the powerful energetic transmissions I send to my
clients 1:1 would somehow be lost.
Instead, the first week of the program, I had 20 people from the program
post in the forum or write in to us privately saying that they had had crazy
amazing energetic experiences listening to the modules that had propelled
them forward in their businesses and that they felt like I was right there with
them in the room, talking to them 1:1.
AND, that fear I had about working in groups vs. 1:1?
Well that got busted too–because within 1 week, I had clients have faster
results than any work I have ever done 1:1. We seriously had about 15
people in just one week, double their income, get clients for the first time,
overcome writer’s block that had lasted 2 years and more. It blew me away.
I thought to myself? “Wow, working on my soul-aligned biz doesn’t have to
be exhausting, hard and a lot of work. It can be easeful, fun and programs
can just come to me in dreams, effortlessly”.
This was a big realization.
Whenever we think of doing the work of overcoming our beliefs that hold
us back in our businesses, we think it’s going to be hard and so we can
shy away and not take action.
But here I had discovered a whole new way of working and moving
forward with my goals: alignment.
When I posted about this on social media, however, the same thing that
woman I mentioned at the beginning of this post was afraid of, happened to me.
Someone actually wrote that I was “evil” and doing the “devil’s work” for
talking about how my program came to me in a dream.
Another wrote “this is new age bullsh&t”.
Another accused me of making the whole story up.
BUT, here’s the part we don’t think about.
I had five times as many people say “thank you!!!” when I posted about it.
And I had 55 people in a program whose lives and businesses were
transformed forever in Impact™ because I dared to be “out” about it.
(Most of them wrote in their testimonials of the program that they wish
they had had this program before they purchased all the other ones,
that it should be required to take before all other programs, imagine!)
So, here’s my “confession”.
The one I’ve been skirting around for months.
The one that makes my heart quicken as I type this.
I am a Seer.
That means I can see clearly what most cannot see.
And the truth is that, my clients have come to me for my seer abilities
for years. I am able to see things about you that you can’t always see
and because I can “see”, I can see right through all the things that
are holding you back from getting the results you want, the things that
you never imaged were there, and the things no one else has been
able to see.
And I do it quickly. So that it’s easy for you to just get on with your great work
instead of toiling away for months or even years until you find your answers.
I have infused all of my Seer abilities into the Impact™ program, not just
in the modules, but also, you get me live for 4 calls–upon which I will
“see” you and coach you live. Being seen can be incredibly powerful.
It produces powerful results in minutes vs. months.
This is one of the reasons why Impact is only 8 weeks long.
Because we don’t need much more time than that.
It’s also why Impact is broken up into easy to follow modules that you
can listen to at your own pace, as you’re jogging, or taking the kids to school,
or cleaning your house.
I don’t think you need years to achieve your results.
You just need to be seen and get laser focused answers.
So I’m owning up to this today and saying it out loud for all to see.
Because I’m hoping that it will inspire you to no longer be afraid
of owning up to your amazing gifts. I’m hoping it will prompt you to
stop hiding your true calling from the world and instead step into
the powerful purpose you were meant to live in this world.
I hope you will stop hesitating to be visible and join us in the Impact
program. You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
So tell me in the comments below, what’s one gift of yours that
you’ve been hiding, that you’d like to out? I’d love to know.
Participants of one of my Mastermind retreats, celebrating a powerful weekend.
There I was sobbing my eyes out, several months ago…
in front of an entire circle of women, mascara everywhere.
Great. The ONE day I decide to wear makeup….THIS happens,
I thought to myself.
“Sometimes I feel like I have to do it ALL by myself!
It feels like I’m holding the entire world and no one
is holding me. I need more support and I don’t feel like
anyone is capable of giving it to me”, I cried.
As I heard myself say the words, a part of me marveled.
I’ve been leading groups of women and curating tribes for
entrepreneurs and visionaries that are here to change the
world, for the past 4 years in my business, and this is exactly
the same thing they mention to me before they join my group
That they feel alone.
That they have to do it all by themselves.
That it feels like the people in their lives aren’t capable of
supporting them in the way that they need to be supported…
so why ask?
This is exactly what I have been leaning into more myself
over the past 5 years…and yet here it was again…ANOTHER
layer of this same “I’m not supported enough” belief.
I thought I was past it. Clearly, I was not past all of it.
I was suddenly instructed to lie down and let all the women
in the group adore me. I wanted to bolt towards the door
and never come back…
But I did as I was told.
I lay down while a group of women surrounded me and told me
how much they loved me, how much they saw me, with their hands
on my heart, my belly and arms.
There was so much love and support being directed at me
in that moment, flooding in…
and all I could think about was how uncomfortable I felt
and how I just wanted it to stop. It was “too much love”
coming my way.
And that’s when it dawned on me.
The only reason I didn’t feel supported, or like I didn’t have
enough support, or like no one could truly hold all of me…
is because I wasn’t LETTING anyone do that.
At least not to this new level I was just now becoming aware
of, that needed a whole new deeper level of support.
Just as I had a really hard time receiving love and adoration
from this group of women, who clearly WANTED to help me
and support me, I was having a hard time truly receiving the full
support of the amazing tribes of friends that I have built around
me in the past 4 years.
Just today in calls with clients in my programs, THREE clients
told me that they were not feeling like they have enough support,
in their businesses and in their lives…
even though they were telling me this while on calls surrounded
by other people who are in the program with them who are just
dying to help them out…
if only they would just ASK.
So here’s the re-frame I want to offer you as a gift today, love.
What if the belief that you are alone, that you don’t belong, that
you have to do it all by yourself, that no one wants to support you,
that no one “gets” you…
is simply an illusion.
What if the one cutting off all the support available to you, is you?
What if you’re the one not allowing in the support that the Universe
is so desperately trying to send to you?
If you say you don’t feel like you’re getting enough support, what if, maybe,
just maybe, you’re the one blocking the vast expanse of support surrounding
you at all times?
On the calls with my clients today, I had each person in the group
with them state how much they want to support them. Sure enough,
each client experienced an entire tribe of people telling them “we want
to support you so much, but you don’t LET us”.
It was the same thing those women in my circle said to me, many months
ago, as I sat there, crying all of my mascara off.
How many times does someone tell us “Call me if you need anything”
and we assume “yeah right, they’re just saying that” and then we don’t
take them up on their offer?
How many times are we in a room full of people who want to adore us,
yet we choose to believe they don’t care and that we don’t belong?
And then we get angry and bitter at the very people who offered us
support and blame them for not offering us the support that we need
when it’s us who rejected the support in the first place?
What if you’re the only one that thinks you are unworthy of support?
And so, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy?
I would be willing to bet on this….
that if you actually chose to believe that there ARE people out there
that can support you and you chose to actively look around you for
the myriad of ways that you are supported & many people who are
around you, just waiting for you to truly ask for the support you need…
that you’d actually end up with an EXCESS of support.
It’s all in how you choose to look at it.
Trust me, I know this one from personal experience.
For years I judged the people around me as “too superficial” to lend
me the support I needed… “too self-centered”… etc…
And in reality it was me not asking for the support I needed and
not actually giving them a chance to support me…
Eventually, lying there, surrounded by my tribe on that day, getting
mascara all over everything, I allowed a whole other layer of support in.
I allowed myself to look deeply into the eyes of each woman there.
I finally saw that it was safe to surrender into their support.
I finally saw that they DID mean it when they told me “I’m here for you
whenever you need it, just text me or call me”.
I finally saw that they WANTED to support me and that there were no
bad intentions in those loving eyes. There was no dishonesty.
And I let it in.
A huge wave of love and gratitude washed over me and my heart
cracked open as tears streamed down my face.
For the first time in a long time, I felt truly, truly HELD.
At the deepest core of my being.
well that is the level of support that has allowed me
to move mountains in my life and business.
If you’re a visionary, a future leader (or a current one), a person with
a deep calling to make a difference in the world with your gifts…
then the most important thing you need to know,
is that you cannot do this alone.
So stop shutting out all the support that wants to come your way, okay?
Start learning from now, how to RECEIVE support.
It will make a HUGE difference in your business and life.
Because when it feels like everything is falling apart around you,
you will never lose your center amidst the chaos.
Because that support will be your anchor and carry you through.
The entrepreneurial journey is a crazy one.
Living your purpose is not always easy.
There’s no way I would have made it this far, without ALLOWING
myself to truly feel and make use of the support that is always around me.
So tell me, how have you been rejecting support…
and what is the one thing you plan to do today to allow in the support
that wants so badly to come to you?
Let me know in the comments below.
So a few weeks ago, I met a man on Tinder.
If you don’t know what Tinder is, it’s a popular dating app.
I stayed away from it for a long time, because I heard
at first that it was only for random hookups…
and that’s just not my thing.
But then a few friends of mine met some awesome
people on Tinder and I decided to give it a try.
Let me tell you, it is addictive.
In fact, I’m quite convinced it is the most genius app
that has ever been invented. No matter where you
are, you can basically use location services on your
phone to find a date.
I mean that is pretty cool, isn’t it?
Taking matchmaking to a whole other level.
So a few weeks ago I “swiped right” for a man who
I found attractive. This means I approve of his profile.
If he swipes right for me too, that means he would like
to be matched with me too.
Lo and behold, he swiped right too, and we matched.
We quickly began to chat back and forth and became
fast friends. We each spoke at least three languages,
we found we had some things in common…
But he was a little slow to ask me out…
so by the time he asked to meet me, I had already left
to go from the city to the mountains, 6 hours away, for a month.
(Hey, you gotta be quick to catch me!)
“Okay, well I’ll just hop on a plane and come visit you then”.
“Well this will be a fun adventure”, I thought to myself,
“no man has ever flown across a country to come see me”
24 hours later he had booked his flight, his hotel room & rental car.
It was settled. I was getting excited and a little fluttery in anticipation.
nothing went the way I thought it would.
2 days later, he asked me if he could “bring a friend along”.
Um. that’s kind of lame.
Was he afraid of meeting me alone or something?
My ego wanted to go nuts and take offense.
But a little voice inside of me said “eh, just go with it”.
“Sure, sounds fun”, I said in response to him.
Then on the day of his arrival, we had made plans to have dinner.
An hour before dinner, he texts me to tell me he met this amazing
American tourist woman while he was white water rafting with his
friend and “can she come to dinner too?”.
Oh man, I felt my ego get prickly at that one.
“Wait, you were supposed to come meet me for dinner,
and suddenly you meet some random woman and want to
bring her to dinner with us? WTF?”, I thought to myself.
My inner queen was not happy.
And my attraction suddenly began to wane.
“This guy is not very smooth at all”, I thought.
“Either that or he is trying to “friendzone” me because he’s afraid.
Or because suddenly he’s really into this woman he just met.
And that’s not very attractive either…” I mused.
And yet I heard a voice in me say “hmm…what would happen
if you just went with this experience, just to see where it takes you?”
Even though he had planned to meet me at my hotel restaurant
for dinner, suddenly I found myself later that evening,
original dinner plans totally diverted, at a whole other restaurant
in town, an hour later, sitting at a table with Tinder man,
his friend and this lovely young American woman, who I had just
met 20 minutes ago, having a fabulous conversation.
This woman and I totally hit it off as friends, within 3 minutes of meeting,
so now I had a new friend I had never planned on making that night.
And the four of us, laughed, told jokes and discussed our
favorite movies over margaritas. And all in all, I had a great night.
A night I would not have had, had I gotten all angry, let
my ego direct the evening and stayed home pouting about
“what a jerk” this guy was being by totally changing up the plans.
(even though that was just one of the weirdest “dates” I have
ever gone on… in fact, I would not call that a date at all.)
Was it a match?
Turns out, I wasn’t really attracted to him.
He smokes like a chimney (dealbreaker for me)
and generally, I like a man who is more into me,
more attentive, and isn’t afraid to go on a date with me,
alone. (and not bring random women to our dinner date).
But I actually had a blast that night when I released
my expectations of what the night SHOULD look like
and just went with the flow of the evening.
And I ended up making a new friend.
Why am I telling you this story?
Well, think about it.
The world’s most successful entrepreneurs, visionaries
and thought leaders get to where they get because they are
willing to experiment, take risks and try new things…
Is there a “Tinder man” in your business that you keep
ignoring because you think things should be “this way”
and not “that way”?
Where in your business can you relax a little and surrender
more to the flow?
What would happen if you did surrender to the flow?
Would it really be all that bad?
What new thing might you discover?
What new experience might you have?
You don’t have to marry the “Tinder man” in your business.
You can try it out, see if you like it and if it doesn’t work,
send “him” love and keep on going.
But if you’re feeling stuck, feeling like you’re spinning your wheels…
starting to feel bored in your business or uninspired…
then perhaps its time you give a delightfully quirky,
chain-smoking French man a try, so to speak, when it comes
to your business…
You never know what you might discover.
And in the end, if you get nothing out of it,
you’ll know for sure what you don’t want to do
in your business.
But we only learn by sticking our necks out there,
opening up to new experiences and trying it out.
Not only did I make new friends by applying this philosophy,
but I also got much clearer on what I “do” want when it
comes to dating. And now I am even better at picking
the right guys for me on Tinder as a result.
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In the comments below, I’d love to know what you plan
on experimenting with in your business (or life) this week.
I’m dying to know!
You know how sometimes your Soul just tells you
to do something and your mind is like “??!!!???”.
Yeah, that’s what happened to me last month when
I heard my Soul say–”spend the month of August living
in the middle of nowhere, immersed in nature.”
Well, I’m now in my third week of this experiment,
and even though I have had freezing cold showers,
power outages that require me to sleep in the pitch black,
no working washer and dryer, a couple of screaming fits
over a huge-ass beetle flying into my hair and
no grocery store within miles…
I have to say it’s been absolutely amazing and it has
inspired me to create so much content for you.
I’m practically busting at the seams with good stuff for you.
And I’m so excited to deliver it to you that I have to practically
force myself to not just give it all to you right now!
But finally I can tell you about ONE thing :-)
While I was here, the sights were so beautiful,
I got the inspiration to do a whole bunch of videos…
and I wanted to show you the first one!
And I have a very special invitation for you that I lay out
in the video (and you won’t believe what’s behind me
in the video, holy mama–just click on through to see!)
Eeeee!! I’m so excited for you to see it :-)
Go ahead and click here to see something jaw dropping.