You’re here not just to make a lot of money or to just make an impact. You’re here to leave a legacy of change with your work. You’re here to play and lead BIG and you won’t let anything compromise your vision.
I’m here to take you on the inner leadership journey that will get you there. Because there is no strategy or blueprint out there that is better than the one that already lies within you.
In graduate school years ago, I shared a house with a male classmate. What I loved about our relationship is that it was 100% platonic, so the boundaries were clear between us (you’ll know why I’m saying this in a moment). Which meant we could have some pretty deep conversations about relationships, sex, and connection in general, knowing there’d be no “unspoken expectations”.
One night after I made us a housemate dinner, he opened up to me…
A few years ago, I found myself sitting on my couch, lost in a long train of thought. It’s a train of thought my brain has been habitually trained to go down, based on childhood physical/emotional abuse I experienced. This train of thought says, “yes, you’re successful, all is great, you’ve achieved all these amazing things… but your friend just published a book and has all this publicity for it, she just got a speaking gig, she had a million dollar launch… why aren’t YOU doing that?” And from there, my brain would then go down this path: “you’ll never be able to get to THAT level. No matter how hard you work, everyone else gets to be seen and …
In our first conversation about boundaries, I showed you where you might be experiencing boundary capacity issues (even if you think your boundaries are locked in and solid). And then in our second video, we talked about all the hidden ways you avoid doing the work to expand your boundary capacity.
Y’all LOVED this particular conversation — the comments and engagement we got on this video were off-the-chain. Let’s dive DEEPER into boundary capacity today.
Your BOUNDARY capacity is your ability to not only guard your time and energy, but to make specific, clear, and easily granted requests from the Universe.
Let’s explore further into how life can look and feel for you when your boundary capacity is fully expanded…
Remember a few weeks ago when we talked about your structural capacity? We talked about where you might be experiencing structural capacity issues in the most unexpected places and then in our second video about structural capacity we talked about all the unexpected ways you avoid doing the work to expand your structural capacity.
Today I’m back to talk with you about what your structural capacity looks and feels like when it’s fully expanded so that you can step into a whole new way of being in the world.
Your STRUCTURAL capacity is your ability to have structures and systems that actually support you to be at your best in every area of your life. When it’s out of alignment it shows up as looking good on the outside but on the inside, it’s a sh*tshow.
You may remember a few weeks ago we talked about your emotional, physical, & spiritual capacity. It’s what I call your EMBODIMENT capacity.
Your EMBODIMENT capacity is your ability to assuredly navigate new challenges that come at every level of your growth. When it’s out of alignment it shows up as being thrown off by every little drama or obstacle in your life and trying to solve big-deal issues with flimsy little bandaids.
But here’s how it could be when seen through the prism of the four pillars of the capacity framework…
