The other day I watched a video of a soccer player that blew my socks off! As the owner of a highly successful business approaching 10 years in existence, I felt every piece of that womxn’s journey trying to get that ball into the net! And that level of relentlessness is the exact level of relentlessness that I’m sure you can identify within yourself as the legacy maker that you are. After all, you wouldn’t have achieved all you have already WITHOUT that level of determination. When you have a strong mission and a large impact to make, THAT is the level of energy and stamina you need. And yet… SO many womxn I work with have previously had the …

“If one more person tells me to go do self-care for two hours with champagne, bubbles, and chocolate in a tub I’m going to tell them to shut up.”

I was on the phone with a client and she was venting. She was recently the newly-minted CEO of a very successful, multi-million dollar family-owned business, and in her words, this powerful badass felt like “life wasn’t working anymore”.

She was showing early signs of adrenal fatigue, couldn’t imagine adding another single thing to her plate, her marriage was showing strain, and she was having serious issues dealing with the team she was now managing.

It’s been almost 10 years since I started my current business and I’ve worked with thousands of womxn at this point. I have given them all a variety of homework assignments after coaching calls with them to help them expand their capacity so they can step into a whole new way of being in the world.

But there is one exercise that has stumped ALL of them. It’s so hard for them to do that they’d probably solve the world’s hardest math equation more easily than they could do this assignment.

Want to know what it is?

Something I did recently walloped me. And I felt shame and remorse for weeks afterward. It impacted me so profoundly that it sent me down a deep rabbit hole about the state of our online communities and the relationship between online creators and the people they create for.

And that is what I want to talk to you about today.It’s time we had a heart to heart about this. Why? Because we are the ones creating our worlds and shaping our collective future, especially in the online spaces and communities we belong to.

Every once in a while you work with a client who has a growth trajectory so huge, it inspires you for years afterward. I’m lucky to have many clients like that, many of whom are still in touch with me today. But today I want to introduce you to a womxn who through expanding her visibility capacity, managed to get heads of state to sign petitions for entire countries to abolish nuclear weapons.