I got a message in my inbox the other day from someone that said this:     Now, you’ll be surprised to hear me say this… but what this woman is experiencing is a Visibility Capacity issue. I know, I know. You’re thinking this is a Money Capacity issue instead. Yes, it’s that as well. But it’s also visibility.  Because our clients/potential clients and their behaviors can often reflect unhealed parts of us. Your clients can be a mirror of you and you a mirror for them. If you’re hearing “I can’t afford it” a lot, then here are a few reasons why this is happening: You’re not showing up in the energy of your wealthiest self. So you’re not …

A few days ago I was speaking with a woman who’s on the fence about joining the virtual Visibility Capacity retreat and she expressed a concern to me. “I’ve only been following you for a little while, your words really resonate and I’m drawn to your work… I feel like I don’t know you well enough yet to know if I can trust that this will work for me.   I’ve invested in a lot of stuff and didn’t get results. Do you think I could talk to other women who have attended the virtual retreat?   I’m not offended at ALL by these kinds of comments. I’m grateful for her honesty. Because I know what it feels like to make the …

My client was on the phone, voice trembling. She’d hired me because she had a creative project she wanted to launch to her community, but had been resisting it for TWO YEARS! “I feel so bored with my business and like I don’t even know who I am or what I stand for anymore. I’m so foggy about it all,” she told me. That “foggy feeling” is a common “symptom” that appears when your intuition asks you to do something and you keep ignoring it out of fear. Eventually, your system rebels and you either get physically sick or you get “foggy-headed.” As we dug deeper in our session, we got to the real root of her resistance. It’s what …

The strangest “phenomenon” has been coming up this week as I’ve been talking to many of you who are feeling deeply pulled to attend the virtual Visibility Capacity retreat. I’ve gotta show it to you in screenshots from emails I got. It’ll be easier to understand if I show it to you this way: Do you see what I’m talking about? “I’m feeling I’m not in the same league as most of your clients.” And “I never felt successful enough or established enough to work with you.” Okay, honesty time — if you’ve felt this way too — can you do me a favor and leave a comment and tell me? I’ve heard this from so many women, I want …

I had a conversation last year with a potential client that broke my heart. She had a business that was doing okay. But she knew it was time to go bigger. To be seen by even more people.  And yet, she’d been stuck for three years in a humdrum kind of feeling about her business. That’s a long time to be feeling that way. And it’s actually dangerous to allow yourself to stay stuck or in a repetitive pattern for that long.   Why? Because the longer you stay in a place of limbo, the more your confidence erodes. And the more your energy drains. Over time you become complacent and you lose your faith that anything could ever change. You start to feel …