NEWSLETTERS
Face slap!
One of the most powerful things a mentor ever said to me was “your business isn’t about you.” Ouch! At the time it felt like a sharp slap in the face, but she was right. While tough to hear, it changed my life and business forever. That’s what good mentors do if we’re willing to…
They found me out
I KNOW you’ve heard of Impostor Syndrome. You’re bopping along feeling great, maybe you have a new offering coming out, or you get invited to speak on a TV show, and BAM, it hits you. This deep fear that somehow people will “find out” you’re “not that great,” and EVERYONE will know it. The problem…
Offensive bathroom break
You’ll often hear people talk about “scarcity mentality” and “abundance mentality.” I know you’ve read and internalized all the usual signs of “scarcity mentality,” so I won’t repeat what you already know. But there’s one sneaky way scarcity mentality comes up, even in the person most convinced they’re “abundantly minded.” When I’ve pointed it out…
Resisting?
Many years ago I worked with a woman who’d just written a book. She had an incredible personal story to tell and even her publishers knew it was going to blow the F up when it was released. “Marguerite” had one problem though… She kept holding back the book launch. First, it was another round…
How to say “pay me” when people ask to “pick your brain.”
Have you ever been at a party, dinner, or some other event, and someone finds out what you do professionally – then proceeds to ask a million questions and “pick your brain?” This happens to me all the time, and I’ve devised the perfect response I want to share with you today. Before I do,…
The Real Reason You‘re Not Getting The Results You Want
One of my nephews is obsessed with dinosaurs. When I was visiting him in June, I took him to an arcade to play Jurassic Park. When it was over, we took all the tickets we’d collected to exchange it for a prize. He picked a magic dinosaur egg, of course. There were very specific instructions…
Visibly Invisible
If I ask you, “what do you do” – do you clam up, fumble over your words, and excuse yourself to the bathroom? Luckily, you’re not alone if you feel this, because this is very common! I’ve helped thousands of people with this exact issue. In all cases, they believed they could fix it by…
Triggered AF
When I was a kid, my sister and I made up a game called “dress of jewels.” You open your closet, look at a dress, then close it and say “I wish for a dress of rubies, emeralds, and diamonds!” If you wished hard enough, it would happen. We always convinced ourselves we’d seen a…