Something I did recently walloped me. And I felt shame and remorse for weeks afterward. It impacted me so profoundly that it sent me down a deep rabbit hole about the state of our online communities and the relationship between online creators and the people they create for.

And that is what I want to talk to you about today.It’s time we had a heart to heart about this. Why? Because we are the ones creating our worlds and shaping our collective future, especially in the online spaces and communities we belong to.

Every once in a while you work with a client who has a growth trajectory so huge, it inspires you for years afterward. I’m lucky to have many clients like that, many of whom are still in touch with me today. But today I want to introduce you to a womxn who through expanding her visibility capacity, managed to get heads of state to sign petitions for entire countries to abolish nuclear weapons.

Make sure you listen to the end for a special invite to an exclusive FB live I’m doing tomorrow with a secret, amazing guest that I brought in just for you this month.

I made a pretty big decision three weeks ago that I’ve kept pretty quiet. Until today. Meet my “surprise kids” Sadie (left) and Luna (right). There will be more stories on them and the incredible journey it took to get here in the future, but for now, I want to share one of the major lessons they’ve already taught me about expanding your capacity…