GENERAL
we need to have a serious talk
I went to a networking event 6 weeks ago. I put on the bright red lipstick that brings me so much joy, and my favorite black and white striped shirt dress. It’s comfortable while still delighting me with its fashionable cut, so I wear this ensemble often for events like this. I also put on…
secrets
Alright… We need to talk. Big time. Please put down whatever you’re doing right now and take FIVE minutes to read this. You will NOT regret it, I promise. Even if you have ZERO interest in the virtual Capacity retreats, you will STILL learn A LOT about yourself reading this email today. Every year when…
self sabotage
A few days ago, I got this message from one of the participants who signed up for the virtual Visibility Capacity retreat: I loved this message because it was literally the perfect example of what it looks like when you’ve reached a Visibility Capacity plateau, and I LOVED the level of self-awareness she had to…
i can’t afford it
I got a message in my inbox the other day from someone that said this: Now, you’ll be surprised to hear me say this… but what this woman is experiencing is a Visibility Capacity issue. I know, I know. You’re thinking this is a Money Capacity issue instead. Yes, it’s that as well….
from their lips
A few days ago I was speaking with a woman who’s on the fence about joining the virtual Visibility Capacity retreat and she expressed a concern to me. “I’ve only been following you for a little while, your words really resonate and I’m drawn to your work… I feel like I don’t know you well…
too big for your britches
My client was on the phone, voice trembling. She’d hired me because she had a creative project she wanted to launch to her community, but had been resisting it for TWO YEARS! “I feel so bored with my business and like I don’t even know who I am or what I stand for anymore. I’m…
sorry but I’m calling you out
The strangest “phenomenon” has been coming up this week as I’ve been talking to many of you who are feeling deeply pulled to attend the virtual Visibility Capacity retreat. I’ve gotta show it to you in screenshots from emails I got. It’ll be easier to understand if I show it to you this way: Do…
the danger of humdrum limbo
I had a conversation last year with a potential client that broke my heart. She had a business that was doing okay. But she knew it was time to go bigger. To be seen by even more people. And yet, she’d been stuck for three years in a humdrum kind of feeling about her business….
“too fat” and “too old”
All day Monday, I coached clients by phone. These womxn have varying backgrounds and levels of success from $50k in revenue a year to $1 million. Do you know what we talked about all day? FEAR OF BEING SEEN. As imperfect. As vulnerable. Fear that others were going to judge the new thing they are…