NEWSLETTERS
I can’t afford it
I got a message in my inbox the other day from someone that said this: Now, you’ll be surprised to hear me say this…but this is a Visibility Capacity issue. Let me explain because I know you’re thinking this is a Money Capacity issue instead. Yes, it’s that as well. But it’s…
the curse of “best kept secrets”
Have you ever asked a client for a testimonial, only to be told to ‘keep it anonymous’ or to be turned down altogether? Or how about that colleague that you see getting tagged by all her clients on LinkedIn, Facebook or Instagram with rave reviews? Even though you do equally good work and…
too big for your britches
My client was on the phone, voice trembling. She had hired me because she had a creative business project that she wanted to launch to her community but had been resisting it for TWO YEARS! “I feel so bored with my business and like I don’t even know who I am or what I…
just ask
A few weeks ago I was up way past my bedtime laughing my @ss off at my favorite comedian’s Instagram account. He had just posted a snippet of his latest act and in between wiping tears of laughter off my face, I noticed a comment that stopped me in my tracks. “Hey, Tony! I…
how to know the difference between real pain and discomfort
One of the most vital distinctions we can learn to make to expand our emotional and physical capacity is this: learning how to tell the difference between pain and discomfort.
is manifesting total BS?
A few days ago, my colleague Chris Winfield posted “Do you believe in the Law of Attraction?” on his Facebook page. The conversation that ensued in the comments was great and some awesome points made both for and against. However, I noticed there was a point of view missing from the comments. One that explains…
this email disturbed me
Clients at one of my Capacity Retreats in Santa Barbara I got an email a few days ago that really floored me. A womxn who has been wanting to work with me for a LONG WHILE wrote in saying this: “I’ve been wanting to work with you for a long time, your message really…
why ‘making a plan’ doesn’t work
(Me and clients on a mastermind retreat in France) Every day I hear dream-killing phrases like this: “My dream is to own a retreat home in Greece.” “I want to get to $2.7 million in revenue next year.” “My goal is to get that huge promotion and a 2x pay raise.” And then inevitably…
the money question you’re not asking yourself
Money Capacity is the one thing I talk about with all of my clients, whether they’re six-figure earners, or eight. Whether they’re rising stars or already established. I don’t care how far along you get in your career or business, you’re ALWAYS going to be expanding your money capacity. Always. I’m almost a decade into…